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		<title>Heart Thoughts &#8211; Overwhelming Life  5/19/12</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[     A scripture I&#8217;ve read so many times spoke to me in a deeper way today, allowing me to see more clearly, something I already thought I&#8217;d seen.  And isn&#8217;t that the true beauty of the power of His living word?      The passage I speak of is Exodus 41:4,7: &#8220;The cows that were ugly [...]]]></description>
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<p>A scripture I&#8217;ve read so many times spoke to me in a deeper way today, allowing me to see more clearly, something I already thought I&#8217;d seen.  And isn&#8217;t that the true beauty of the power of His living word?</p>
<div><span style="color: #000080; font-size: small;">     The passage I speak of is Exodus 41:4,7: &#8220;The cows that were ugly and gaunt ate up the seven sleek, fat cows&#8230;..The thin heads of grain swallowed up the seven healthy, full heads.&#8221;  These verses deal with the dream Pharoah had, and how Joseph interpreted their meaning for him; that Egypt would enjoy seven wondrous years of bounty, followed by seven more of great famine, that would erase all that had gone before.  The Father then used Joseph as an agent of both the deliverance of Egypt from the famine, as well as that of the Hebrew nation.  That&#8217;s a great and wonderful story in itself, but I&#8217;m seeing something more here as well.</span><span style="color: #000080; font-size: small;">  <br />
     All of us, particularly the &#8220;us&#8221; who would call themselves ministers and pastors, seem to measure our value and success on our years of bounty.  When the harvest has been plentiful, the cows sleek and fat, we&#8217;re overwhelmed with a sense of well-being.  God is so good, and we don&#8217;t tire of that testimony.  Life and ministry is good as well, and we&#8217;re not tiring of them either.  This is true for all of us, whether we are members of the professional clergy, or those who seek to follow Him in our day to day living.  The bountiful years are times of great rejoicing, and we want them to go on forever, indeed, we often expect that they will, they must.  Yet, they don&#8217;t.  Inevitably, whether physically, emotionally, or spiritually, financially or numerically, the time of the ugly, gaunt cows will come upon us.  The day of the thin heads swallowing up the full healthy ones will come.  When they do, what then will be our testimony?  What then will mark our lives?</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #000080; font-size: small;">    I&#8217;ve known the mountaintop years of bounty, and all the good feelings and rich expectations that accompany them.  I&#8217;ve known too the deep, dark valleys of the &#8220;years that the locust have eaten,&#8221; and the discouragement, depression, even near despair that comes with them as well.  What I have (at last?) learned, is how easily my faith, my walk, my love in, with, and for Him, can be affected by these states, and their changeableness.  What I&#8217;m learning, experiencing, is that there is something more, something better, than the good feelings of the bountiful years.  There&#8217;s something greater, more powerful, something all encompassing, that&#8217;s able to negate the ability of the famine times to crush us and bring us low.  That something is Someone, the Father, in Christ, through the power of His Holy Spirit, living in us, and we in Him, carrying us through all times, no matter how good, or bad, they might be.  There is a joy, a wonder, a peace beyond words that comes from living in Him, truly abiding in Him, that no outward circumstance can steal from us.  When we live in this place, our times are no longer defined by our circumstances and day to day conditions.  We come to know the joy of Paul who was able to rejoice and live abundantly in Him whether he was in want or plenty.  Neither of those states had power over him.  When we come to this place, we start to learn that outward success, recognition and achievement, is nothing, dung, when compared to the surpassing joy of being in Him.  These trophies, or lack of them, that so easily rust away, pass away, no longer motivate us.  We&#8217;re now motivated by, and living in the power of His life and love.<br />
     It is life lived out in Him, fully in Him, that gives us overwhelming life.  Life that overwhelms and is greater than any time of famine, but any time of bounty as well.  Our meaning no longer comes from what is happening or not happening around us.  It comes from what is going on within us, with and in Him.  It&#8217;s no longer a matter of coming into His Presence.  We live there&#8230;.all the time.  We can rejoice in the bounty, and in the famine, because we know, by experience, He is the Lord of both, and He will bring us forth in both, abundantly, and overwhelmingly.  This is overwhelming life.  I want to go deeper.  How about you?</span> </p>
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		<title>Heart Thoughts &#8211; One Day  5/15/12</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[     I wonder, how many times have you and your church sung this verse from Matt Redman&#8217;s wonderful song?  &#8220;Better is one day in Your courts than a thousand elsewhere?&#8221;  It may well be one of yours and your fellowships favorite choruses.  It&#8217;s certainly one of mine.  The verse comes from verse 10 of the [...]]]></description>
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<p>I wonder, how many times have you and your church sung this verse from Matt Redman&#8217;s wonderful song?  &#8220;Better is one day in Your courts than a thousand elsewhere?&#8221;  It may well be one of yours and your fellowships favorite choruses.  It&#8217;s certainly one of mine.  The verse comes from verse 10 of the 84th Psalm, also a favorite to many.  Still, if I am willing to get past the surface good feelings the song(s) give me, and allow the still, small voice of His Spirit to ask, just how deeply in this truth do I, does our fellowship, really live?  How deeply do you and yours?<br />
     In this day when &#8220;consultants&#8221; are hired to help us find every way possible to get people into our buildings, to help us come up with &#8220;new&#8221; ways to &#8220;market&#8221; our product, we still find that most of our folks, even when they come, have a hard time bearing with much more than an hour &#8220;in His courts.&#8221;  The thought of being there all day strikes us as very foolish, if not downright insane.  We live in a hectic, busy culture, and we in the church need to understand this and adapt to it.  That&#8217;s what we&#8217;re told.  I wonder, just how is that working for you?<br />
    Don&#8217;t misunderstand.  I&#8217;m not championing long services that go on and on yet head nowhere.  This isn&#8217;t about the location of our bodies, but of our hearts.  This Psalm, written by the sons of Korah, starts out expressing a longing to be in the Presence of the Father.  &#8220;I long, yes I faint with longing to enter the courts of the Lord.&#8221;  Has anybody come through our doors of late with that type of expression on their face and heart?  Have you and I? <span style="color: #0000ff; font-size: small;">The psalmist comes with his &#8220;whole being, body and soul.&#8221;  We may come with our bodies, but so often, our souls and being are someplace else, often, someplace very far from where our bodies sit.  The place the psalmist describes, is a place where even the sparrows and swallows find a home at.  A place near His altar.  Creatures that most everyone would see as insignificant and forgotten, desire to make their home there, and are welcome.  I doubt that anyone had to mount a campaign to tell them about it.  They were drawn there by a power and presence beyond description.  Neither they, or the psalmist merely came to that place, spent a few moments of their day and then left.  They lived there.  Abided there.  It was their home.  They lived in the presence and heart of the Father.  They would give up not only a thousand days, but all of their days for just one day with and in Him.  Is that you, me, us?<br />
    I don&#8217;t seek to be critical, but doesn&#8217;t it seem like the majority of our people, even ourselves, are more in love with the thousand days than the one?  Aren&#8217;t they, we, more prone to live out our lives far from His altar, rather than near it, upon it?  I don&#8217;t see this changing by our trying to polish up our product, but rather by our being consumed with and by His life.  A life, a church, that has been consumed by Him draws even the sparrows and swallows.  It will surely draw those lost souls He loves so dearly to Himself as well.  In his book &#8220;Your Church Is Too Safe,&#8221; Mark Buchanantells of a woman, a prostitute who came to their fellowship seeking help.  Buchanan and another pastor on staff told her of the woman at the well with Jesus.  They told her of the Living Water He offered her, then asked if she would like to have that same Living Water in her.  She eagerly answered yes, and after a prayer of confession, repentance, and forgiveness, lifted her face with a look of newfound joy.  The other pastor then told her, meaning well, that when she came to church that Sunday, she needn&#8217;t feel like she had to fit in right away, that she could sit in back if she liked, could come late and leave early if she chose to.  She looked at him as if he were crazy.  Her response: &#8220;Why would I do that?  I&#8217;ve been waiting for this all my life.&#8221;  In places everywhere around us are people just like her.  They don&#8217;t need to come, and won&#8217;t, to the new thing we&#8217;re trying to do.  I believe they will come when they see and hear of the new thing He has done in us, in our fellowships.  The thousand days will mean nothing, and they will long for the one day with Him.  They will not seek to be elsewhere, but will seek to be with and in Him.  I want to be there, our fellowship to be there too.  How about you?  Just where do you want to spend your days?</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[     Several years ago I was having dinner with a friend I&#8217;d recently met.  They were a regular attender at their church, and in all ways I could tell, considered themselves a follower of Christ.  We&#8217;d not spent a lot of time together, but enough that I think we were beginning to get an understanding [...]]]></description>
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<p>Several years ago I was having dinner with a friend I&#8217;d recently met.  They were a regular attender at their church, and in all ways I could tell, considered themselves a follower of Christ.  We&#8217;d not spent a lot of time together, but enough that I think we were beginning to get an understanding of just where each of us were &#8220;coming from,&#8221; especially as concerns the Kingdom.  I remember their words to me on what turned out to be the last meeting we&#8217;d have.  They said to me, in a tone that could only be interpreted as concern, that I was &#8220;really intense about my faith.&#8221;  The unspoken was that there was a much easier, safer, more comfortable way to follow Christ.  One that didn&#8217;t get in the way of enjoying what they saw as &#8220;life.&#8221;  The life I saw as normal for one of His followers, they saw as abnormal.  What comes to mind are words that come from a forgotten source, but say in effect, &#8220;Those who seek to truly follow Christ appear out of their minds to everyone else.&#8221; </p>
<div><span style="font-size: small;">     I don&#8217;t share this story as a boast upon myself, or a putdown of my friend, for the Lord knows the many times I did seek to be more &#8220;laid back&#8221; about it all, to fit in &#8221;just a little&#8221; more comfortably.  The thing was, still is, that Christ never gave me such an option when He first took hold of my life all those years ago in the dining room of the home I grew up in.  The scripture that has become more real to me through all those years is</span></div>
<div><span style="font-size: small;">Philippians 3:12, &#8220;I press on in order that I may <strong>lay hold </strong>of that for which also I was <strong>laid hold of</strong>by Christ Jesus.  Another translation of Paul&#8217;s words and experience uses the word &#8220;apprehended.&#8221;  At any given point in my life, and yours as well, the question which will come to us from His heart is whether or not our lives at that moment are in line for that which He first laid hold of, apprehended us, for?  Are they?  Are we even aware?  Are we walking through life, comfortably, safely, easily, unaware of that for which He first took hold of us?  Have we ever felt the grip of Christ, the grip of His grace?  Can such a grip be so easily forgotten or laid aside?<br />
    Christ lived a life of singlemindedness, of total devotion to the cause of the Father, which was His cause as well.  He was given over to that cause, that purpose, completely.  He was not boring, or hardedged.  None have ever lived the abundant life so much as He, yet He was never turned aside from His calling, His purpose.  He &#8220;set His face for Jerusalem,&#8221; and nothing kept Him from arriving there.  What has kept, is keeping, you and I?</span></div>
<div><span style="font-size: small;">The late evangelist Vance Havner said &#8220;We are dealing largely with a mixed multitude of uncommitted, disinterested, undisciplined people, who have never set their faces to say, &#8216;This one thing I do.&#8217;  Theirs is the sin of dissipated devotion.  As someone has put it, their lives are not like swords with one point, but like brooms ending in a thousand straws.&#8221;</span></div>
<div><span style="font-size: small;">    The &#8220;one thing&#8221; of course is a reference to Philippians 3:13, the &#8220;reaching forward to what lies ahead,&#8221; to what He has prepared, purposed for us.  To do so will require a straining, a stretching beyond our own capability.  It will require a God empowered life to lay hold of.  A life that has been laid hold of by Him.  Are you and I living such a life today?  Are His purposes being fulfilled, or our own?  Are we seeking to &#8220;live&#8221; His life, come into His purposes, from the safety and ease of our spiritual recliners, or are we straining, reaching, in spite of every danger or hardship, to lay hold of that for which He first laid hold of us?  Spiritual bystanders will never understand, but we will live life not only in His will, but in His heart, in His life.  We&#8217;ve been apprehended, and could not bear to ever be let go.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[      Many will be familiar with story told in Matthew 14, where Jesustook the five loaves and two fishes and used them to feed, miraculously, over 10,000 people.  We love that story, and it&#8217;s preached so many times as an example of His ability to take out &#8220;little,&#8221; and make it His &#8220;much.&#8221;  I&#8217;ve heard [...]]]></description>
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<p> Many will be familiar with story told in Matthew 14, where Jesustook the five loaves and two fishes and used them to feed, miraculously, over 10,000 people.  We love that story, and it&#8217;s preached so many times as an example of His ability to take out &#8220;little,&#8221; and make it His &#8220;much.&#8221;  I&#8217;ve heard it and preached it that way, and you likely have done one or both as well.  The thing is, I think we&#8217;ve so &#8220;westernized&#8221; the story that we are missing the real power and truth in it.  We&#8217;ve made it more about material increase than anything else, using to encourage our faith in believing Him for more &#8220;stuff.&#8221; even if we mean for that stuff to be used for good and moral purposes.  In doing so, we have weakened the power and meaning of what Jesus taught and did here.<br />
     In this passage of scripture, the disciples are painfully aware of the need of the crowds around them.  They&#8217;re hungry and need to be fed.  Their solution is for Jesus to send them away, Christ&#8217;s is much different.  He tells them, &#8220;<strong>You give them</strong>something to eat.&#8221;  Their reply was that they had nothng but five loaves and two fish, to which Christ replied, &#8220;Bring them here to Me.&#8221;  He then proceeds to take that little, and make it much, feeding the throngs, and with a lot left over.  We get that.  We bring things to the Lord, no matter how little, how few, and He takes it and makes it not only sufficient, but more than sufficient.  He does it with resources, congregations, and bank accounts.  All the &#8220;stuff&#8221; we bring Him, and we rejoice, yet somehow, we keep thinking He&#8217;s talking about things, while He&#8217;s really speaking of us.  There are four things Christ does with the loaves and fishes, and we&#8217;re on board with it so long as He keeps it to dealing with our loaves and fishes.  He won&#8217;t though, because it&#8217;s not about loaves and fishes at all.  He doesn&#8217;t want to take all of that, He wants to take all of us.<br />
     There are four things Jesus did with what was brought to Him.  He took it, He blessed it, He broke it, and He gave it.  We don&#8217;t mind Him doing this with our loaves and fishes, but when He means to do it with us, well, that can be another matter.  Yet it&#8217;s what He means to do, will do, if we&#8217;ll truly bring ourselves to Him.  Loaves and fishes we can bring.  Ourselves can be another matter altogether.  Yet, what can happen in the life, in the lives, that will dare to come to Him in such a way, without reservation?  What will happen in our hearts, and through our lives if we give ourselves entirely into His hands?  What will take place in and through us if He fully takes us, fully blesses us, fully breaks us, and then fully gives us out to the starving world and culture that surrounds us?  Being completely taken by and blessed by Him sounds very good to us.  Being fully broken, and fully given out?  Not so much.  Yet for those dare, who will, miracles await.  They may not be of the kind anyone writes stories about, or crowds flock to behold, but they&#8217;ll be stories told in eternity, stories all of heaven beheld and beholds.  They will be lives, our lives, taken, blessed, broken and given.  Lives that were little in the eyes of the world, made much by the power of God.  Lives that looked like 5 loaves and two fish to everyone else, but were seen as the bounty of heaven by those He laid hold of through them.  Lives that were miraculously transformed, and used of Him to transform other lives, and the culture they were part of, that was all around them.  I want to live such a life.  Do you? </p>
<div><span style="color: #0000ff; font-size: small;">      It will mean the offering of all of ourselves.  All of ourselves taken, blessed, broken and given.  Nothing held back.  It will mean being completely emptied of everything that is self, in order to be filled with everything that is Him.  The beauty and glory is that there is always so much more left over.  It&#8217;s a day by day cycle of life.  Taken, blessed, broken, given.  It&#8217;s the cycle He calls us to.  Is it the cycle we&#8217;ll enter into?</span></p>
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<p>A friend once passed along to me the title chapter of a book he&#8217;d read.  It was, &#8220;Is There Life Beyond Coping?&#8221;  It&#8217;s a great title, and an even greater question.  One that might well be asked of many of us.  How would we answer that?  How do we answer it?</p>
<div><span style="color: #0000ff; font-size: small;">      For many, including those who would say they are believing followers of Christ, coping, surviving from day to day, would be an apt description of their lives.  Is it one of yours or mine?  We live from hand to mouth, particularly in the spiritual realm, a kind of &#8220;paycheck to paycheck&#8221; existence, with our &#8220;pay&#8221; being whatever meager nourishment we can glean from our weekly organized times &#8220;with Him.&#8221;  Yet somehow, most of what we hear there, even receive there, doesn&#8217;t seem to stick, to stay with us.  Somehow, so much of what we receive, never goes deeper than our surface lives, never seems to reach into the depths of who we really are, to where we really live.  So, when we step out into those places where we&#8217;re &#8220;really living,&#8221; we continue to do so in our strength, wisdom, and understanding.  The only result that can come from such a lifestyle is a coping one.  We&#8217;ve heard about a life that goes beyond that, may even yearn for it ourselves, yet it continues to elude us, continues to be more a rumorthan reality.  As author and pastor Dutch Sheets puts it, &#8220;Our limp has remained a lasting fixture, as we&#8217;ve made peace with paralysis and believed that our best case plight is to hobble through one futile struggle after another.&#8221;  Victory in Jesus is a wonderful song, but for us, that&#8217;s</span><span style="color: #0000ff; font-size: small;"> what it remains.  A wonderful song, not our life story.<br />
     You may not have heard of actor Charles Dutton, but likely you&#8217;ve seen him in one role or another.  Dutton was a former prison inmate, jailed for manslaughter.  His future was thought by everyone to be one of hopelessness.  Yet, he overcame those odds, and became a successful actor.  When asked how, he said, &#8220;Unlike the other prisoners, I never decorated my cell.&#8221;  He never planned to stay.  He meant to be free.  There are prison cells far more confining and deadly than those made of plaster and iron, such as Dutton lived in.  They are places guarded by wounded, broken, hopeless minds, emotions, and spirits.  Those trapped in them, though deeply hating them, who may talk much of leaving, and of the life they want to live when they do, remain in them.  They&#8217;ve decorated them.  Dark, dingy, places of despair they may be, but they are now home.</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #0000ff; font-size: small;">Homes that have become their tombs.  Might you be in such a place today, at least in some part of your life?<br />
     Yet the Father has already prepared an escape plan for us.  We can see the first such instance of it in Matthew 28:1-3.  &#8220;As the <strong>new day </strong>was dawning, Mary Magdalene and the other Mary went out to see the tomb.  Suddenly there was a great earthquake because an angel of the Lord came down from heaven and rolled aside the stone.&#8221;  The Father is committed to rolling away whatever stone keeps us imprisoned, in our cells and tombs.  Death could not keep Him, and in Him, truly in Him, it cannot keep us either.  Jesus said in John 8:36, &#8220;He who is free in Me, is free indeed!&#8221;  In the Greek, the meaning of &#8221;indeed&#8221; is &#8220;reality&#8221;.  Christ is telling us that for those who truly live in Him, abide in Him, their day to day, moment to moment reality, is freedom.  We cannot make our own escape.  We can&#8217;t even successfully cope.  Our prison cells and their size, will be our reality, until we enter into the fullness of His reality.  Not just coming near at scheduled times or days, but living in Him.  Free!  Indeed!</span></div>
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<div><span style="color: #0000ff; font-size: small;">Pastor O  </span></div>
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		<title>Heart Thoughts &#8211; Fullness  4/28/12</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Apr 2012 17:10:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[      I&#8217;ve seen several articles over the last few days pointing out what makes for an unhealthy or healthy church.  I don&#8217;t find disagreement in what they say, but I can&#8217;t get away from the sense that somehow, they, we, are missing something.  Something that truly sets the church, His Body, apart from every other organization, and [...]]]></description>
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<p> <span style="color: #800000;">I&#8217;ve seen several articles over the last few days pointing out what makes for an unhealthy or healthy church.  I don&#8217;t find disagreement in what they say, but I can&#8217;t get away from the sense that somehow, they, we, are missing something.  Something that truly sets the church, His Body, apart from every other organization, and that is the reality that the church is not an organization.  That&#8217;s something manufactured by men.  The church is a living organism, something birthed and given life by the Father, in Christ, through the Holy Spirit.  </span></p>
<div><span style="color: #800000; font-size: small;">    These lists I looked at all seemed to point to what the church is &#8221;doing&#8221; or &#8220;not doing.&#8221;  I understand this.  We cannot be passive, laid back bodies, waiting upon the Lord to either move, or come back and take us home.<br />
Yet, the undercurrent always seems to be about doing, and so little about being.  This is so easy to fall into.  We, particularly in the west, know and emphasize the activity of doing.  How many bodies have made the statement, &#8220;Let&#8217;s just do something, even if it&#8217;s wrong.&#8221;  The thought seems to be that God will then take notice of sincere efforts and move on our behalf.  Getting Him to do something seems far more important than &#8220;getting&#8221; Him.  Seeking first His Kingdom seems more about seeking first His &#8220;plan&#8221; carrying it out, and then cashing in on all the &#8220;these things&#8221; that He promises.  I think Jesus came showing us something greater, something more, but our westernized mindsets so often, most often, miss it completely.<br />
    In John 1, it says of Jesus, &#8220;So the Word became human and lived here on earth among us.  He was full of grace and truth.&#8221;  I think we&#8217;ve seen and heard that verse so many times, yet have never really &#8221;seen&#8221; and &#8220;heard&#8221; it at all.  I know it&#8217;s true of me.  This verse tells us that it was impossible to fit any more grace or truth into who Christ was and is.  He was, and is, the embodiment of all grace and all truth.  Wherever He was, and in whatever circumstances He was living in, He spoke, breathed, lived, in grace and truth, and spoke, breathed, and poured that grace and truth into whoever He came into contact with.  He didn&#8217;t wait until He came to the &#8220;church,&#8221; or went on a planned outreach trip.  He lived it as a carpenter.  He lived it as a teacher, as a traveler.  He lived in that fullness, and He lived to pass that fullness on to all that He came into this world to reach.  He didn&#8217;t just DO works of grace and truth, He WAS grace and truth.  He lived out this reality on a moment by moment basis.  There was never a time when He didn&#8217;t, including the cross.  The truly healthy church, and it&#8217;s individual members and families, cannot do anything less.  We&#8217;re not just doing the works, we&#8217;re living the life, because we are the life.  His life.  This is seen in every place, and every circumstance we are found.  Not just public ones, but private as well.  Not just with those we hope to get into our buildings, but with those we just want to introduce to His life, to see come into His Kingdom, whether they ever come into our building or not.  We live this before, as He did, the very &#8221;least of these,&#8221; for with Him, there are none who are least.<br />
    Mark Buchanan made this statement concerning living in such fullness of grace and truth:  &#8220;May you and your church so resemble Jesus &#8211; the neighbor who moved into your neighborhood &#8211; that all the other neighbors, seeing you, catch a glimpse of Him.&#8221;  If, wherever we go, we are filled with all the grace and truth we can hold, and like Him, breath it, speak it, and live it before and for all &#8220;neighbors&#8221; everywhere, we, and the fellowships of which we&#8217;re a part, will live in health.  We may not look like a successful organization, but we will be vital organisms, living in the fullness of His life, and being vessels that pour it out upon a culture dying for that life.</span></div>
<p>Blessings,<br />
Pastor O</p>
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		<title>Heart Thoughts &#8211; Apatheists  4/25/12</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[     Theolgians and academics have come up with all kinds of labels when it comes to &#8220;faith&#8221;, or lack of it, in God.  Those who believe in Him are called theists.  Those who don&#8217;t are given the name &#8220;atheists.&#8221;  Those who would add Christ to this list, and I and many of you would be [...]]]></description>
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<p>Theolgians and academics have come up with all kinds of labels when it comes to &#8220;faith&#8221;, or lack of it, in God.  Those who believe in Him are called theists.  Those who don&#8217;t are given the name &#8220;atheists.&#8221;  Those who would add Christ to this list, and I and many of you would be among them, would call themselves Christians.  The question that must be raised then is this: Would anyone else, especially those around us, call us Christians as well, and if they did, would it be a compliment?<br />
     Mark Buchanan, in his book <em>Your God Is Too Safe,</em> uses a phrase you or I may have heard before, but it bears repeating.  He lists a group called &#8220;Apatheists.&#8221;  These are people who believe in God (and even Christ) but live as if they don&#8217;t care, hence the combining of the words theist, and apathy.  I wonder how often, outside of the Bible studies I attend, prayer groups I&#8217;m a part of, and weekly worship services I lead or particiapte in, that I am not an <em>apatheist </em>as well?  Might you have to ask the same question? </p>
<div><span style="color: #800080; font-size: small;">    What I&#8217;m getting at is, just how conciously do we live out our day to day lives, doing our day to day &#8220;stuff&#8221; with a constant, real sense of His Presence?  When we gather together in any number, we like to announce that &#8221;He is here.&#8221;  We stress that.  How often have we quoted &#8220;Where two or more are gathered in My name, there I am also?&#8221;  Yet how real, how &#8220;here with us&#8221; is He when we leave our organized gatherings, so often organized and controlled by us, and go about the rest of our lives?  Lives that are being lived outside the walls of the church.  Lives that have so often perfected putting up boundary lines when it comes to His presence and activity when we have left &#8220;here&#8217; and gone out &#8220;there?&#8221;<br />
    As a pastor, I spend a great deal of time thinking about the church.  Over the last few years, He has gotten my attention, humbling me as He did so, as to how little I have actually <em>been</em> the church.  My thinking seemed always to be &#8220;How can we reach more people?  How can we get them to come to our church?  How can we make the church grow?&#8221;  I&#8217;ve come to see this all as a snare from the enemy, which I know doesn&#8217;t sit well with the &#8221;experts,&#8221; but such thinking makes us very concerned with the number of people, and very much less concerned with the person.  This was proven in so many ways in my life.  How many times I stood on line in a store or bank, and became impatient, even angry with either the cashier or teller, or the slow person in front of me?  When I did get to them, how often did I have a scowl on my face instead of a countenance that somehow resembled Christ?  When I spoke, if I spoke at all, how often did the words in effect &#8220;curse&#8221; rather than bless them?  How often, when people came into my day unannouced, did I see them as bothersome human interuptions, instead of divine appointments from Him.  How much did I miss in all of that?  How much of an &#8220;apatheist&#8221; was I, who though I claimed to be a follower, a believer, and a lover of Christ, lived a life that said to those looking on, in so many ways, that I didn&#8217;t care?  How much of your life might say the same thing?</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #800080; font-size: small;">    You might say I&#8217;m being too hard on myself, that we all have bad days, we&#8217;re not perfect, and most of all, that He &#8220;understands.&#8221;  If you really think of what it means to be a follower of Christ, to be completely His, to live in His Presence and be at His disposal, does it sound as hollow to you as it did and does to me?  None of us who say we abide in Him, can live in such a way.  No one <em>can</em> abide in Him and live in such a way.  Yet we do, and continue to.  We decry the crumbling state of our culture, yet in our apathy, are no longer salt or light.  The deep tragedy is that instead of transforming the culture by our living totally transformed lives, we&#8217;ve become very much like it.  We wonder why the world, our neighbors, acquaintences, and the tellers, cashiers, waiters and waitresses we come into contact with, is so apathetic towards us?  They don&#8217;t care, but we never see their reason as being because we don&#8217;t either.<br />
     Only in the power of Christ can we throw off the yoke of being apatheists, and only in His grace may we keep it off.  We need to confess it, renounce it (old fashioned repentance), and take on the fullness of His life, each day, in all parts of the day.  Will it bring people into your church or mine?  Of course, we all hope to see such fruit, but is that all we want?  Do our desires end there?  Can we see the person in the midst of the people?  Will we respond to them as a soul precious to Him, or as a number to be counted?  To us will come people we&#8217;ll see as interuptions, or appointments from Him.  What will be our response?<br />
    This has been longer than usual, but I want to share just one more thing.  Last week I was in a local clothing store.  I stood on line until the cashier was able to help me.  When I got there, she took my money, and gave me my change, all the while with a look of weariness on her face.  As I was leaving I said simply &#8220;I hope you have a truly God blessed day.&#8221;  I won&#8217;t forget her response.  She did what we would call a &#8221;double take,&#8221; literally blinking before she spoke.  She thanked me, saying &#8220;You know, most people never say anything to me, and if they do, it&#8217;s negative or sarcastic.  It feels so good to have someone notice me and wish me well.&#8221;  In our zeal to win the world, while at the same time being oblivous to everything outside of our world, we fail to see those He brings right before us in such day to day divine appointments.  If we will be His church, Himself, in the midst of them, He&#8217;ll be glorified, the Kingdom will advance.  We may get no credit, but does that really matter?  We&#8217;ve been faithful.  We&#8217;ve been His.  We&#8217;re apatheists no more.</span></div>
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<div><span style="color: #800080; font-size: small;">Blessings,</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #800080; font-size: small;">Pastor O     </span></div>
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		<title>Heart Thoughts &#8211; The Audience  4/21/12</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[      Each of the gospels relates the story of the two Mary&#8217;s going to the tomb to anoint the body of Christ.  I&#8217;ve always centered my thinking on what happened when they got there, and the wonder they beheld.  Most likely all of us have done the same, but this morning, through the thoughts of [...]]]></description>
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<p> Each of the gospels relates the story of the two Mary&#8217;s going to the tomb to anoint the body of Christ.  I&#8217;ve always centered my thinking on what happened when they got there, and the wonder they beheld.  Most likely all of us have done the same, but this morning, through the thoughts of Max Lucado, I saw another aspect of that morning, one that speaks to me, and I believe, speaks to all of us.</p>
<div><span style="color: #000080; font-size: small;">     Lucado speaks of what must have been going on in the minds of the Mary&#8217;s as they walked to the tombs.  The anointing of the body was a part of Jewish ceremony.  It was what they should be doing, yet none of the disciples had joined them in this.  They were all holding back, hiding.  Only the Mary&#8217;s were taking that walk to the graveyard.  More, they had no real sense of expectation.  They beleived the Lord had been taken from them, and that they were alone.  What they did, what they were doing, was unnoticed, and unobserved.  Even so, with aching hearts, they continued onward, because in their hearts was a great sense of &#8220;ought to,&#8221; that this is what they ought to be doing, must be doing.  The Lord was gone, but they would be faithful even now.  They were so wrong on the first part, and so right on the second.  <br />
     The experience of the two Mary&#8217;s speaks to me because I believe it is so much a part of our daily lives and ministries.  There can be so many days, weeks, months, and even years, where we feel that we are trudging, downcast and with aching hearts, towards His tomb.  Hopes and dreams once so bright, have faded.  Promises once held so tightly, seem to mock us as they continue to unanswered, and we wonder, also unheard.  We hear the laughter of the enemy at us, but the still, sweet voice of our Lord is silent.  The question from out of the darkness asks, &#8220;What&#8217;s the use?  Why do you do this?  Why not give up?&#8221;  I think it likely that the two Mary&#8217;s felt this way.  I think it&#8217;s certain that the disciples did.  They remained indoors, yet the Mary&#8217;s walked with broken hearts to the tomb.  Do you and I know something of their pain and experience?  I think we do.  Maybe on this day, we most certainly do.<br />
      To live a life for Him is to live a life that can often seem to go unnoticed, unobserved, and unappreciated.  This is hard the flesh, for within each of us is a desire for approval, recognition, and yes, fame.  We start out in our walk with Him, our ministry for Him, full of promise, hope, and expectation, but somehow, it often seems to have take a wrong turn somewhere.  What was expected doesn&#8217;t come about, and what we did not expect, even feared, has.  We wonder, where is He?  Where has He gone?  Why has He left us alone?  In the midst of those questions comes the mocking voice and laughter of hell, asking why we, like so many others, don&#8217;t just stay behind, hidden, hiding, defeated?  Yet, like the Mary&#8217;s, we somehow feel compelled to continue onward, to do what we&#8217;ve been called to do, aching hearts and all.  For those that do, there is a Wonder beyond words lying ahead.<br />
      The Mary&#8217;s felt they were alone, and unnoticed.  They were not.  The Father was watching.  He was there.  We, who so easily fall into the snare of living for the applause of the audience, just as easily lose awareness of the attention and care of the only Audience that matters, that of the Throneroom of the King.  The Mary&#8217;s, in the midst of all their emptiness, lived out their faithfulness, despite their broken emotions and hopeless feelings, and because of that, were the first to behold the Risen Christ.  Not Peter, not John, not any of the others.  Just them.  And so is the reward of all who go on in the midst of the lies and mocking that comes out of the darkness.  Such will be the first to see the Risen Christ in the midst of all broken dreams and hopes.  He is faithful unto the faithful, and will be so to the end.  The enod of all hope, all dreams, all expectations.  To the end of ourselves and our ideas about all of those.  It&#8217;s then we&#8217;ll see the Risen One, and behold the glory.<br />
        It may be that you find yourself on the same road as the Mary&#8217;s today, feeling unnoticed, even forgotten.  The Father sees.  The Audience of One is with you.  Stay the course.  Cling to Him.  Walk the road, even as it leads to the graveyard, and you, we, will behold Him, in glory.  His best is always yet to come.</span></p>
<div><span style="color: #000080; font-size: small;">Pastor O<br />
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<p> Mark Buchanan tells a story passed on to him by a member of a church plant in the midst of a drug and crime infested section of a city.  Those who attended each week formed a wide spectrum of the neighborhoods residents; addicts, pimps, drug dealers and gang members.  As Buchanan describes them, &#8220;God chasers and God evaders.&#8221;  Each week in the church, communion is served because, &#8220;Every week &#8220;They needed the Bread of Life and Living Water.  They needed to know what Jesus did for them and they could never do for themselves.&#8221;</p>
<div><span style="color: #008080; font-size: small;">     On one of those Sundays a streetwalker came in for the first time.  She bore all the marks of her profession and life, being bruised, beaten down, and used up.  I&#8217;ll let Buchanan take it from there.  &#8220;When the pastor stood up to serve communion, he explained what it is: taking Christ Himself, His forgiving, healing, redeeming life, into the very blood and bones of ourselves.  It is feasting on Christ&#8217;s forgiveness and love and promise of newness.&#8221;</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #008080; font-size: small;">The plate was passed around and when it came to the streetwalker, she took a handful of the bread and placed it on her lap, on top of her short skirt.  Buchanan goes on, &#8220;When invited, she ate it all, licking crumbs off her fingers.  Then the cup came around and the streetwalker did likewise, took six or seven little thimblefuls and downed them all, tipping each cup back to drain the dregs.  All the time she wept.  She wasn&#8217;t physically hungry or thirsty.  She was starved for love.  She was parched for grace.  She could not get enough of Christ.&#8221;<br />
    I&#8217;m humbled by that story.  Are you?  How many communion services have you and I been a part of?  Have any of them ever affected us like this one did that streetwalker?  Has the meaning of it all, so wonderfully explained by that pastor, ever really registered on us?  That woman, so starved for love, parched for grace, &#8220;heard&#8221; what Christ was calling her to.  Her heart and soul were responding in the only way she knew how.  She wanted, where she was, and who she was, all of Him that she could possibly have.  When is the last time you or I came to Him in such a way?  When was the last time we spent such time in His Presence so as to eat every crumb of the Bread of His Life?  To drink every drop of the Living Water of His Life?  When was the last time we encouontered Him as the woman at the well in John 4 did, where we allowed Him to so penetrate our hearts and lives, &#8220;telling us everything we ever did, telling us everything that we are?&#8221; <br />
    You and I may not outwardly look like that streetwalker, but I suspect we bear her resemblance inwardly and far more than we would dare to admit.  We&#8217;ve grown adept at covering up our true hunger and thirst by consuming the knock-offs of the world.  Like obese people consuming thousands of empty calories per day, we are starving to death in our obesity.  <br />
    After this encounter, the woman returned to her village and said to her neighbors, &#8220;Come, see a man&#8230;..&#8221;  This is the call, no more than that, it is the command of Christ to each of us, each day.  Truly, each momet.  He calls us to come to Him, and in the coming, to see Him.  Really see Him.  Such times are transforming, for we cannot see Him, encounter Him, and remain the same.  We may well have our &#8220;devotional time,&#8221; attend our weekly &#8220;worship services,&#8221; and even participate in the serving of communion with some degree of regularity, but in any of them do we really come to Him?  Do we really see Him?  Do we emerge from these times transformed, or unchanged?  Do we dwell so deeply in His Presence that our starving lives are filled, and our parched souls satisfied?  Or, do we just take a sip, a nibble, a sample, and then move on to the food and drink of this world?  Do we &#8221;check in&#8221; to these times, and then just as easily &#8220;check out&#8221; when the time is up?  In Amos 5:5 the Father says to His people, &#8221;Come back to Me and live.&#8221;  Have you ever come, and if you have, did you really stay?  Do you need to come back?  More than a God chaser, I want to be a God dweller.  I know what it is to be a God evader.  I expect you do as well.  He commands you and I to come to Him, to come back to Him.  Will we obey, or disobey?  Will we come, will we see, will we dwell?</span></div>
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Blessings,</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #008080; font-size: small;">Pastor O</span> </div>
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		<title>Heart Thoughts &#8211; The Way Of It  4/14/12</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[      Vance Havner tells the story of a grandfather who was in the habit of taking his young grandson everywhere he went.  One day he asked the boy to come with him.  The boy asked, &#8220;Where are you going to go?&#8221;  The old man replied, &#8220;Never mind, you just stay here.&#8221;  Later on, when he [...]]]></description>
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<p> <span style="color: #008080; font-size: small;">Vance Havner tells the story of a grandfather who was in the habit of taking his young grandson everywhere he went.  One day he asked the boy to come with him.  The boy asked, &#8220;Where are you going to go?&#8221;  The old man replied, &#8220;Never mind, you just stay here.&#8221;  Later on, when he returned, he explained to his grandson why he&#8217;d left him behind.  &#8220;Because you didn&#8217;t want to go.  If you&#8217;d really wanted to be with me, you wouldn&#8217;t have asked where I was going.  That wouldn&#8217;t have made any difference.&#8221;<br />
      I consider myself to be a follower of Jesus, and you likely do as well.  Still, I am humbled by how many times in my life my &#8220;going&#8221; with Jesus has been just like that of the boys going with his grandfather.  I, in my desire to know all the twists and turns of the road ahead, and to maintain some sense of control in my traveling of it, want to know just where it is we&#8217;re going?  This seems to me a reasonable request.  After all, one needs to be prepared, and more, one needs to be able to have some foreknowledge of the journey in case one would like to sit out this particular part of the &#8220;walk.&#8221;  As Havner says, &#8220;The Road becomes more important than the Guide.&#8221;  So often, that road, and its landscape have loomed larger, much larger, in the overall picture than has the One who leads me.  The joy and wonder of just being with Him isn&#8217;t enough.  We need to know what lies ahead, and whether the &#8220;risks&#8221; are not <em>too</em> risky.  We want the leading of the Spirit in our lives, but we want the itinerary and route of the journey to be of our choosing.  We say that we&#8217;ll follow Him anywhere, so long as &#8220;anywhere&#8221; is a destination that&#8217;s agreeable to us.  We&#8217;re convinced that where we feel its best for us to be and go is where it is He wants us to be and set out for.  We do want His fellowship, but we&#8217;d prefer it to happen in a comfortable RV, with Jesus in the passenger seat as we &#8220;drive&#8221; the vehicle.  That way we get to choose where all the rest stops will be, and how long we&#8217;ll stay there.<br />
     There&#8217;s a story of an explorer who, in the immensity of the jungle all around them, said to his guide, &#8220;We&#8217;ve lost our way.&#8221;  To this his guide replied, &#8220;No, I am the way.&#8221;  As Havner puts it, &#8220;What does it matter if we travel uncharted country if we&#8217;re with The Way?&#8221;  Yet it does matter to so many of us, doesn&#8217;t it?  And so, we go on traveling in our comfortable, controlled means, and never really arrive anyplace, if we go at all.  Most often, we, like the boy, want to first know where it is our Jesus wants to go.  The road is more important than the Guide, and so we miss the joy of His presence, company, friendship, and deepest expressions of His love&#8230;..It brings to my mind a time when my daughter was a little girl.  She asked me to go with her into the nearby woods where she and her friends played each day, to show me what gave her such joy.  She wanted to, as she said, &#8220;Make memories,&#8221; with me.  I, in my busyness and attention to mapping out my road, promised we&#8217;d go another time, but never did.  I&#8217;ve always regretted what I missed that day.  How many such times have we missed in our lives with others, and most of all with Him, by not going with Him for just the sheer joy of being with Him, and through Him, with others?  What we want to know keeps us from the depths of Him who we so desperately need to know.<br />
      In John 14:5-6, Thomas says, &#8220;We haven&#8217;t any idea where You&#8217;re going, so how can we know the way.&#8221;  Jesus told him, &#8220;I am the Way&#8230;..&#8221;I want to live in the depths of that Way.  I want to live so deeply in Him that where I am, good or bad, cannot rob me of the joy of the journey, because it is a journey with and in Him.  To live so deeply in Him that knowing where I&#8217;m going cannot compare with being with Him that I go with.  Resting in the reality that where I&#8217;m going, we&#8217;re going, will always result in my ultimate good, and His eternal glory.  That&#8217;s the way of it, as I travel in the Way.  That it&#8217;s enough.  Is it enough?</span></p>
<p>Blessings,</p>
<div><span style="color: #008080; font-size: small;">Pastor O</span></div>
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